i am an explorer.

words

These words are snapshots of certain points in my life. I like to read them to remember how I was feeling and what I was thinking at the time. Please feel free to apply whatever meaning you'd like.

(I don't call them poems because it doesn't feel appropriate, but you might disagree)

(transition)

I’m still so uncomfortable
And I think that’s why this works

I was living in shadows
But you are a spotlight
Exposing my ugly
Forcing me out of hiding

I know there is beauty here
But my shame keeps me blind
Keeps me quiet
Keeps me hungry

Behind a carefully placed curtain
There is a process
Which will not be revealed
Before it is finished

Until that time
I’m not what I was
Nor what I will become
So what am I?

(tender)

I think of you fondly
And often

I want to share with you
The mundane details of my days
And I want to know about yours

Ideas and ponderings
Curiosities
Linger at the tip of my tongue
Awaiting your open ears
Your wisdom and wit

The quiet space between
Once brought on worry
But now leaves me
With a full heart
And a tender smile

(mouth)

I can’t stop thinking
About your perfect teeth
The way your lips move
Around them
When you speak

(dreamland)

Close your heavy eyes,
Bear;
Lay your head against
My chest.
I hope that you find peace
Here;
An escape, a place
To rest.
I’ll watch over all your dreams
And
When it seems they’ve grown
Less sweet,
I’ll stroke your hair and take your
Hand,
Until the beasts admit
Defeat.

(morning)

I woke up this morning
With tears already pooling
In my tired eyes.
The alarm sounded too early.
A nightmare plagued my sleep,
And I wondered how rested I was
Having woken up so many times.
I headed for the bathroom and spent a moment
Staring into the mirror
As if I would find some comfort there.
I returned to the bedroom and found that my strength was diminished.
The tears escaped and I felt angry and ashamed.
I hate mornings like this.
But you had a nightmare too, and sleepily
beckoned me into your arms.
We shared our unpleasantries
Allowing them to dissipate into the morning grey.
I glanced at the clock.
The relief vanished.
Late again.
New plan.
I got ready and climbed back into bed
Milking you for cuddles before facing the real world.
The front door is always a challenge to open.
I fussed with it a few second too long, and watched the bus pass by.
I felt the passages in my brain constrict as the stress grew more intense.
It’s fine. It’s fine.
I began to walk, oozing negativity.
Then I heard the birds chirp, felt the cool air against my cheeks, and realized my advantage.
How many people are lucky enough to experience this beauty to start the day?
I enjoyed the rest of my walk, caught the next bus, and read an interview with some graphic designers on the ride.
I arrived, still a little tense, but less so.
(A girl with a pink ukulele at her side has no reason to stress)
From a distance, I saw a familiar face, who hollered that my class was cancelled.
I sighed and smiled.
My stress is as real as my nightmares.
And rob me of my waking hours
Like the latter robs me of my sleep.
Learning not to worry is a trick.
But it appears the universe is on my side
And is quite the patient teacher.

(lost)

I’m walking
Naked
Blind
Trying to learn where I am
And my relationship to this place.

(want)

I want to tell you
Everything will be okay.
But I don’t know that.

I want to tell you
Everything will work out
But I don’t know that.

I want to tell you
I’m here and I’ll do whatever I can
But you need to rely on yourself right now.

I want to take away
Your anxiety and your regret
But you made this bed you’re lying in
And I can’t join you there.

I can only cheer you on from the sidelines
Encourage you when you’re weary
And run alongside you
Until my path leads me elsewhere.

(goofy)

You’re the most attractive person.
Even when you’re being a goofball.
Especially when you’re being a goofball.
It’s amazing.

(release)

Maybe all I needed
Was to be reminded
That it’s okay
To be myself.
I feel free.
I wonder why
I’m so uncomfortable
In my skin.
I wonder why
I doubt myself
So heavily.

(lucky)

I’m so lucky
To see you
As yourself
When so many people
Will never
Have the chance
To experience you
At all.

(vomit)

My eyes are heavy from this long day
This long week.
There’s no reason for all the worry that creases my brow.
I know I make things up to fill the spaces.
I don’t know how to be still
To stop fighting
Even when there’s no opponent,
I fight.
I’ll invent one.
Years ago, they said I had a warrior’s spirit.
Now, I’m not sure what I have.
I live inside my head,
More so than I ever have.
Day in and out,
I find myself wandering these dark halls,
Pulling out the drawers,
Rummaging through the forgotten contents,
Trying to forge connections that never were.
I don’t know where I am
Or where I’m going.
Some days,
That’s alright.
But most days,
It’s terribly unsettling
And I don’t know how to rid myself of that feeling.
I want to be swept away by the wind.
I want to see the world,
Live an anchorless life,
Laugh at falling leaves and make strangers smile effortlessly.
But I feel so heavy,
Like my feet are soaked in concrete,
Like I’m sinking into the earth.
I regret so many words these days.
I think I forgot how to talk to people,
Or I’m just realizing I never really knew how.
I’m self-aware like I’ve never been,
Wondering about everything I do and say,
What benefit it is to anyone.
I find myself wanting to be nowhere.
Yes, I care what others think of me,
But I believe all of this comes from a place
Of desperately wanting to be good,
To do good,
To leave good behind me.
I look at my father,
At the lives he’s touched,
And I want the same for my life.
I worry that I don’t understand love,
How to care for people.
I wonder if I live based on fear.
I wonder I wonder I wonder.

(doll)

Today I awoke
Feeling like a paper doll
Fragile and flat
Shoved inside this too-big skin suit
Forced to walk the world
Peering through cut holes
With tired eyes
In shoes that don’t fit quite right.

(bathtime)

Last night I dreamed
I was in a bathtub full of bones.
I was scared for a moment.
But then I remembered
You were there to make sure
The badness couldn’t get me.
So I laughed
And threw the bones over my shoulder
One at a time.
Some of them dripped with blood.
But those made me laugh even harder.
The real laugh.
The one you love to cause.
And then
The tub filled up with water.
And I relaxed.

(break)

Tears streamed down the old man’s face.
“I want to get better so I can sing with you.”

(barefoot)

there’s a place
where your shield is almost lowered
and my shell obscures my face a little less.
our weapons are not at the ready.
we are vulnerable.
it’s a place where
I can look into your eyes
and you into mine
with curtains pushed back,
a piece of soul rising to the surface
ready to be known
after so long in hiding.
over time, we’ve both receded
behind walls for safe-keeping
where we are us but not us
so that no harm will come.
but together,
we are free
and allow room for some destruction
shrugging off the fear
of judgement and loneliness
to embrace the possibilities,
holding hands,
and barefoot.

(insecurity)

Occasionally
I become insecure
About my insecurities,
Which is not something
I quite understand
How to climb out of
At this point
In time.

(reality)

What is reality
But a culmination
Of perceptions
And expectations?
Does it share with truth
The ability to change
Depending on the shoes one stands in
When it is evaluated?
How, then,
Can one know
If the reality before him is truly real
Or if the truth he has found is indeed true?
And if reality and truth are dynamic
Rather than static,
As many seem to believe,
How might one pinpoint,
Or change,
These things?

(us)

You’re my dude.
I’m your girl.
Let’s eat.

(love)

What a privilege it is
To spend a night
Watching over the man
Who has spent his life
Watching over me.

(dreamland)

Hospital coffee
Is just as weak
As those who drink it